Gambino's QOTD 8.11.08August 11, 2008, 8:57 amThis question comes from one of the female readers on my email forum.....
Question Of The Day Is What happen to romance in a relationship? Why after the relationship is established, the romance stops and the relationship becomes routine??? Comments You are so right joychew. sometimes there was no romance to begin with...gambino i think a better question is what is romance now a days? Reply to this comment
Romance is corny. Its all about the women. Men dont need to be romanced.. Us men only Romance for the game of winning or to keep our women happy. Otherwise there is nothing in it for us, but what we were aiming for in the begining.
Romance is superficial. Its fake. Romance is not natural, its politics in the relationship. Just like how all politicians running for office, they tell us what we like to hear to get elected. Then when they are in office, they cant keep up with all the promises they kept. Women are so stupid sometimes. What does a flower do for you? lol. What does a romantic candle light dinner do? all you do is eat the food, and shit it out and it stinks. there is nothing romantic about it. Its all in the mind.. Romance is boring and corny... What about a FUN relationship. Activities, hobbies, passionate sex i do agree with. I do advocate for treating your women to a massage once in a while, dinner (good food), vacation, sucking her pussy out of spontaneity, buy something she likes. Making her feel desired and cared for. Howevever, Romance... I dont like that word. Many men cant keep up with that word. Its too superficial for me. What I recommend is activities for the both of you to do. Many women out there are too feminine, stiff, and dainty. Try activities that you can do with your man. Get physical, and go to the gym, box, play video games, fishing, amusement parks, bowling or any sport. Take interest in the things your man does, and it would bring you too closer. Then romance would then be a natural thing A fun and eventful relationship will make a lasting relationship. Find hobbies besides hanging out with your girl gossiping, myspace and clubbing. Those things tend to lead to misleading thoughts of about your relationship and what it should be and acts of promiscuity. Thus destroying your relationship. Also a lasting relationship is a simple one as well. Life is not all about action and romance. Sometimes things need to be serene. Back in the Jesus days they were less things to do. Less romance. However, relationships lasted, countries were built, and new generations were born. Dont expect your relationship to be like Jay Z's and Beyonce's. Dont believe the hype. You would never find prince charming, because he is not real. Be satisfied with your relationship. But do not settle for inactivity. Keep it real with yourself, and not what you read about in story books or on tv. Fellas if you love your girl and want to be with her, try to involve her into the things you like. Break her in. You would be surprised what she wouldnt mind doing. Ask her about things outside of girly stuff, what she would trying. We do tend to be lazy in our relationships, but try to do things with your woman. Otherwise, fuck romance. The Hater Reply to this comment |
on August 11, 2008, 10:13 am
Because the chase is over... Men are like dogs (de ja vu?!?
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