Gambino's QOTD (new) 8.5.08August 5, 2008, 11:38 amQuestion Of The Day Is:
What would be your reaction/response if your child unexpectly came out and informed you tht he or she was either Gay or bi-sexual. Would you treat them any differently or would you embrace their new way of life ? Comments dont have any children but from my friends experience, it was something there parents couldn't understand. they were not fair to their children. one friends mother sent her to camp thinking she could get it "blessed out of her". that didn't work. another one just wont speak to her daughter because she thinks that she is going against the will of god because god didn't make her that way. i mean i would suggest to the parents that you do continue to love your child and although you may not agree with their sexual lifestyle, you have made fucked up mistakes in your life and have not seen them as mistakes, that is the same way your child is looking at it. besides as a side note, i think people are born gay...PLEASE DONT COME AT ME WITH IGNORANCE TO THIS TOPIC!! Not in the mood for the selfrighteous! Reply to this comment there is a part of the brain scientist believe homosexuals are predisposed too. they believe there is a part of the brains networking that hetro sexuals are not born with. if you want the full details, please let me know i have no problem posting them for you! 
Reply to this comment  Green, against my better judgement I believe you're right when you say people are born gay. I have an 9 year old nephew who is a twin and one of 5 boys between my sister and I and he is extremely feminine. I used believe that God doesn't makes and people arent born gay but as I've matured and am on the frontlines to a feminie 9 year old I can now say that people are born gay as well as ugly but God doesn't make mistakes. It's sin that makes us this way. I love him the same, no less and will continue to pray that life isnt too hard on him or that he grows it out completely. I have 3 boys and I'd feel the same about them...prayer changes things. Reply to this comment lol @ born ugly...that is so true but yes i do believe in my heart that people are born that way...i truly do not believe with all the BS the gays are up against someone would just want to be gay...its like waking up wanting to be black so bad you don't care about the side effects. Reply to this comment LOL! I said born ugly because I can her my grandmother now telling me nobody's ugly because God made them, when in fact some people are just U-G-L-Y! Reply to this comment
SHUT THE FUCK UP... All of a sudden we got all these new gay people. Now everyone is born gay now. Thats a bullshit excuse to stick your dick in another man's ass right? Thats your new excuse when you cant find the right "thug" to treat you right, so you go find a woman to like her twat right?
There is only but a tiny population of people that can be born with a mental malfunction to be gay or have a physical malfunction to not have sexual desire at all. The rest are either perverts, under the influence, have low self esteem, traumatized(molestation, male feminineness due to upbringing with women, loss, miseducated, curious or some other form of pscyhological manipulatiion. So if your reading this and your gay/bi, about to be gay, gay for tonight, contemplating being one or was one: 99 percent of chance your werent born gay and you suffer from the causes mentioned above. Your were predisposed to it at sometime of your life, and did not have any guidance to lead you away from it. A heterosexual is capable of being homosexual, if he/she makes his mind do it. Also A normal human being can be a murderer if he doesnt keep his temper under control. A person can become fat or unhealthy if he/she doesnt taper and have a conscious diet. WE CAN DO ANYTHING, BUT WE HAVE TO CONTROL OUR FREE WILL. CAN YOU CONTROL YOURSELF FROM FUCKING THE SAME SEX? WHERE IS YOUR CONSCIOUS. If I have a child that becomes homosexual, I would not know what to do. I will do my best to raise my child to live a life with God in it. THE CHANCES OF A SUCCESSFUL GAY RELATIONSHIP ARE SLIMMER THAN OF A HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP. SO DONT THINK THE SAME SEX WILL SAVE YOU. THE HATER, Good Night Reply to this comment if in your small fucked up world that is how you feel that is fine but remember when you come into the real world we don't need this kind a shit. you are saying that people have control about who they fuck. that is true, however, if you are attracted to someone you are attracted to them they just so happen to be the same sex as you. sometimes hater you are spot on and then times like this you show your true ignorance. you should not even participate in discussions like this. you should sit on the side line hating as you do so well that you named yourself hater. besides, a homo is a homo you cant hate men for being gay but then want to sit and watch two woman getting it on and for the last fucking time THE BIBLE IS NOT COMPLETE AND IF YOU CHOOSE TO RAISE YOUR CHILDREN BY THE TEACHINGS OF THE BIBLE ALONE YOU ARE TEACHING THEM MORE HATE THAN LOVE. that is just a fact. there has been more hate put out into the world from people thinking they are doing the will of god. if god is so great then people saying gays are evil are questioning the design of god are you not?????????? Reply to this comment
If any of my children were to come out of the closet on me, I would love and embrace them. I too believe that people are born homosexual.
I would pray for my kids to be happy and ask that GOD's will be done in their lives. No one has the right to point fingers at someone else because of their sexual preference. Nobody's hands/heart is totally clean. No one sin is greater than any other. As parents we have the responsibility to raise children that are emotionally, mentality and physically healthy --- to the best of our natural ability. I am always going to be my kids biggest and loudest cheerleader. Fuck watcha heard. They will have to combat too many other people in life, that will raise up against them. I will not be one of them. Reply to this comment
i agree withh a few points from different ppl.
LADY B i agree with u when u said "God doesn't make mistakes. It's sin that makes us this way. " the parents of ur nephew did some sinful things that poped the jar up to their offspring being in sin... HATER i totally agree with u here" There is only but a tiny population of people that can be born with a mental malfunction to be gay or have a physical malfunction to not have sexual desire at all. The rest are either perverts, under the influence, have low self esteem, traumatized(molestation, male feminineness due to upbringing with women, loss, miseducated, curious or some other form of pscyhological manipulatiion. So if your reading this and your gay/bi, about to be gay, gay for tonight, contemplating being one or was one: 99 percent of chance your werent born gay and you suffer from the causes mentioned above. Your were predisposed to it at sometime of your life, and did not have any guidance to lead you away from it." people have a choice...u can choose to be gay or u can sincerely repent to God about watever homosexual urges that might be running thru u and he'll work on u form the inside out...u have to truely be sorry for the gayness in u to be free from it GREEN this i dont agree with "if god is so great then people saying gays are evil are questioning the design of god are you not?????????? " they are not questioning the design of god if those ppl have sinned to begin with...he original design has been tampered with from before conception...once u sin one way u open up the door to all forms of sin...the devil will fight u on wats right every chance he gets...his plan is to make God seem less then he really is...the bible is complete..anythin u think is missing from it is not relevant...all books of the bible have 3 witnessness...and yes there are peopl who have twisted and misunderstood things in the bible...yes there are ppl who r doing evil but claiming to be "godlike"...but those ppl God would never show himself in... Reply to this comment first off i am not the one to get into a discussion with people to rooted in their religion not to look at it as a whole. in all honesty this is the reason for the decline in the black church. god only shows himself to the chosen. fuck that shit. who says you are the chosen ones? the jews think its them and you say its your kind. god created everything didn't he so how the hell can you split hairs? this only shows a continuing lack of ignorance on the part of some christians. you are going to tell me that a gay person doesnt love god as much as you do because they are gay?! we are all born into sin so what makes your sin not as bad as someone who is gay? because your not gay but did you have sex before marriage? did you have a child with more than one man? do you do anything positive to uplift your community? do you stop and feed the homeless because he is hungry or do you walk past him as if he is not there? christianity is a fucked up religion. i have to be honest. i have only come across one christian on this page that is opened minded enough to say ok just maybe this could be and that is lady b (hey girl  we are in a society right now that is telling people they are fucked up because they do not follow the ways of everyone else. this shit should sound familiar to black people considering we have heard shit like this since we got to america. christianity is not our natural religion. and if you really believe that the bible is complete than you really stupid. there is no other way to put it. if i wrote a book and said got told me to write it then you would question that too. get a clue! god gave us something he didnt give any other creature...free will. if he wanted us to be alike then why give us options? i mean i am such a fucking sinner that i do not have that direct link to god the same way you do so maybe you can send him an email and ask him. and while you are at it, could you please ask him why he would continue to allow people to die all over the world for lack of simple things like food and water? he is alll knowing why cant he do anything or are you going to tell me he only helps those who help themselves? what about the preist fucking little boys please dont get me started on your half ass religion. to each is own and we do not all have to agree but when you are going to tell someone they are wrong for something have facts!!! you people always want to refer to sodom and gamora (sorry about spelling) but you forget all the other sinners that were there. they just weren't gay they were rapist, murders, peodphiles and more....too pissed to even finish this shit but this just shows that religion is put in place to tear down and uplift it just seems that most christians want to tear down in the name of upliftment and i am not the one.
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Green your comment are more ignorant than mine. Your saying "fuck that" when it comes to God's rule. Then you say "If God is so great....". God is great in all religions in all worlds. If your an atheist, cool. Say anything you want.
The Bilble is not Christianity. Many religions come from the Bible. Im not dealing with Christianity so get that straight. I have a respect for all mankind. However, Im saying that not all people are born gay. MOST of the gay people your see now are not born gay. They are influenced, misguided, or self manipulated into that. Think about Sin. We all sin. We know that all sin's are Not equal. If you read the bible yourself, you would understand this. Dont you see the world coming to an end? Kids dont respect parents anymore. Women and men dont have respect for each other. No one like yourself respects God anymore, and say "fuck that" when it comes to his word. This is all in revelation. Stealing candy from a store is not bringing the world down. Men having multiple girls would not bring the world to revelation. Wars would not cause destruction of earth. Why? these things always has been... But you probably saying homesexuality has always been around! Yes its has, but not to a magnitude where is was dominating our world order. The Bible does not promote hate, nor it promotes hatred towards gays. So dont hate on the Bible, people promote hate. However, the Bible has rules. From what I read. We are heading towards judgement day very soon. Why? People are living by the way of the world. Once a majority of the people live by the way of the world, and not God, then judgment will come. Some of you wont live to see judgment day, but you will have a warm spot in hell. The world tells you its okay to be Gay. However God says to be procreation. But "fuck that", everyone is doing this and that and they not dead yet, so its okay to do this and that. Our school systems took God out the school system. So now we got kids who have no respect. You want know the secret behind the Commandment "Honor thy Mother and Father" ? Many of you think, its just to respect them and to obey them, and dont talk back to them. Yeah but not quite. The reason being is that they were supposed to carry the rules of God and instill them in our children. There for if we honor our parents, then we honor God. Hence, God's word lives on generation to generation. Now a days, with many of new generation of parents dont carry any God instilled morals. therefore the whole code of the commandents are being broken. You got a new generation parents like GREEN who made the comments above, that have no understanding of this. Thus leading us into destruction. We are teaching everyone that everything we do is ok. Let me tell you something shocking, and you can read this yourself. God gives you the free will to do anything you want. So feel good now. Sometimes he intervenes with special people who he chooses to lead in another direction, or saves them from destruction. Others he will let free to make their own decisions. The shocking truth is that GOD does not love everyone. Research it, google it, read the good book yourself. If you live the way of the world, then you think your God. Everything okay, because everyone else is doing it. "Fuck that". Im not asking for a response from no one. No one needs to prove me wrong. I dont need approval on this subject matter. Im not going to follow the way of the world on this one. I have had sex before marriage, but i atleast try to keep a relationship which leads to marriage. However we are a heterosexual couple, planning pro creation. I have a temper, sometimes road rage makes me want to punch someone in the face. But I never done it, and if I had, then that would be my sin for that time. Im a hater on this mikemogul.com bulletin, i speak of ingorance a times. Yes Im ignorant with the comments lol Im crazy in the head, i have a problem in real life. But I try to maintain self righteousness when I walk out in the real world. I know in my heart that Green you say im ignorant sometimes and your right. But dont you see i take the time out, to promote righteousness when needed. I dont live completely like everyone. There is a balance. God is strict. He might even send me to hell. You never know. Im cool with the homo's.. I work with them. They are not killing nobody. But homosexuality is the leader in the Anti-Christ movement. Why? because they are the coolest people a times, they got money, nice people, funny, giving, own alot of businesses, got money and connects etc.. So we take that as being okay to be gay, because they are are non threatening to society and cool. The Gay movement, has cause many of us confusion on what to believe now. 'If Gay is cool, then we can do anything and get away with it'. We think 'we all sin, God accepts us all the way we are' WRONG. God is the measure of all things, not Man. So Green, if your atheist, You Go do your Thang!!!. This topic is not about religion. Fuck religion. EVERY TOPIC UNDER THE SUN IS UNDER GOD. So dont try to sepearate it. Green you said 'God only shows himself to the chosen one'. Yes he chooses the special ones, and he reaches out the ones whom reaches to him also. Im trying to convince you. Im only posting this to touch others and to reach out to the potential chosen ones. You already made up your mind. For give me for any typographical error above. I type fast and dont proof read. lol The Hater.. Reply to this comment |
on August 5, 2008, 12:22 pm
I have an 8 year old boy so I'm sure i don't have to think abt that now but I recognize that in the future it will be a possibility but would rather not think about it.. Its easy to say i'll support and love him regardless, which i would. I'd cry... I'd want to know why... I'd have so many questions...
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on August 5, 2008, 1:16 pm
I think I'd continue to love him/her the same, I'd be a little disappointed out of selfish reasons, losing out the traditional wedding and things of that sort, but its still the same kid, and I think society is a bit more open to gays...womp womp
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